Well, decided to bite the bullet this evening and add another 16Mb of RAM. Seemed to go okay, if a bit fiddly, but no bootup! I was getting a blue light on the main board, and the pulsing blue on the display board, but no serial output.
On checking, it looks like I had shorted pin 123 and 124 on the ARM.
Sadly, in trying to remove the short, I now have no boot up, no blue lights, nothing. Think there is a short across other pins around 123.
My solder wick and other tools are just not small enough to sort this out - so if anyone UK based can help me out I'll provide some reward. I'm fairly certain that is all there is that is wrong.
Need to dig out my backup empeg and bring it up to date until I can get this sorted out
(think it is still on 2b3)