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Don't take this as rude, but have you gone through the process yourself?

No- but I would never imagine thinking about the wedding reception (or a birthday party even) in terms of profit/loss. I would invite people based on the budget I have and offer them what I could without expecting anything in return except their sharing the hallowed event.
Would you gauge the value of a gift you brought based on the meal you'll get?

I can certainly see that cultures are different the world over. I'm just expressing mine.

...and I don't mean to be rude, either, though I was quite hasty in my reply.
With deepest sincerity- good luck, Bruno- may all your dreams be fulfilled!
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