So I get it you guys suggest using a router which can do VPN IPsec server instead of just VPN pass through?

If so, that rules out that d-link 4300 I referred to earlier.

But no worries, I'm open to suggestions: which router would be a good one at a fair price? Things I would need on this router: wireless capability, a gigabit switch, and now also VPN IP sec server stuff. All the rest I would need (like port forwarding and stuff) is so common with even the cheapest routers these days I won't even bother to post it.

I'm don't really stick with one brand: I just want a solution that works.