Jeff, I'm really, really, sorry to hear that. I'm sorry that some of your friends are taking sides, but I'm sure that she needs that support as much as, and perhaps more than, you do, and I'm sure that you know that, even as hard as it is to watch.

Hopefully you can continue this process without too much animosity and your friends will come around to the fact that it was something that just didn't work out between you, and that there's not really any reason to take sides.

For now, though, let me know if there's anything I can do to help.