I'm sorry to hear that, Jeff. Like the others here, I'll be thinking of you and I hope everything works out. I wish I had something more profound or helpful to say, but I don't have much experience with this. I definitely agree, though, that it's better for your son that he doesn't grow up in an unhappy marriage.

Best of luck to you. I'm sorry you're losing a couple big relationships in this (your wife and your church). That has to be tough. I hope you find another [religious] community that you feel comfortable with.